
There’s nothing intrinsically wrong with TV, it’s just a matter of how it’s used. — The Springs of Contemplation: A Retreat At the Abbey of Gethsemani, p. 19 (ebook)
The above words come from the transcript of a retreat that Thomas Merton offered to a small group of Prioresses in 1967. In this engaging retreat, they encountered Merton’s insights as well as his humour and lighthearted nature. In this particular chapter, Merton and his guests were having a discussion about the presence of television and newspapers in their respective communities. TV and newspapers? When I shared this quote with Denise, she shook her head and said, “He had no clue…”. I wonder what he would say about “reality television” (an oxymoron in my opinion) and 24-hour “news” (I use that term loosely)? I imagine that we would have a rather animated discussion as we sat on the front porch of his hermitage.
Growing up I remember having the three major channels (ABC, NBC, and CBS) along with PBS if you could get the rabbit ears positioned just right. You had the six o’clock and ten o’clock national news and local news (30 minutes each). In 1980 Ted Turner revolutionised television when he created the Turner Broadcasting Network with 24-hour news.
Ten years later, as the US and their allies built up military forces in Kuwait and prepared for Operation Desert Storm, the networks went into high gear. Of course, 24-hours is a lot of time to “fill” and so reports would be repeated over and over and over again with all of the armchair quarterbacks “sharing their speculations” in order to fill time.
I believe that Merton was right … in 1967! Today between the internet, television, and every Tom, Dick, and Harry talking non-stop and sharing their opinions with the world, it is too much. I find myself being quickly overwhelmed and frustrated by the “abundance” of opinions and the false narrative of “reality TV.” I find myself having to pull back and put down my electronic devices to find some sort of peace.
I find myself wondering what my friend Tom would say about this situation. A few weeks ago we got to spend some time at the Abbey where he was a monk and actually sat on the porch of his hermitage and spent time with one of his former novices, Brother Paul. There wasn’t a TV in the hermitage, in fact there wasn’t even an AM/FM radio!
I can see him shaking his head and wondering what the heck have we done as a society. How can you possibly seek out and find moments for silent contemplation in the midst of this human-constructed chaotic echo chamber?
I don’t know what the answer is… but I will continue to try and limit my intake of “news” while trying to be still in the silence as I listen and pray. In September Denise and I will be spending eleven days hiking along the Camino de Santiago from Sarria to Santiago. It won’t be about how many kilometres we can hike but rather about walking the pilgrim’s path and experiencing God’s creation and peace. Technology will be turned off (hello airplane mode my old friend) and with our cameras, we will be exploring much like we used to in the Rocky Mountain National Park when we lived there. And perhaps I might run into Merton on the trail, in the silence.

Some food for thought in today’s world where a lot is taken for granted and life is expected or owed to us.
…maybe we want to have life on our own terms, as if it were not a gift but my due. This attitude goes back to a legalism which is terrible, precisely because, instead of making it possible to accept life as a gift, welling up from within, I make it something that’s coming to me, something I’m owed. “I’ve fulfilled everything. Where’s the pay? Where’s my merit?” — The Springs of Contemplation: A Retreat at the Abbey of Gethsemani, pp. 16-17 (Kindle edition)
Verse of the day
For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not first sit down and estimate the cost, to see whether he has enough to complete it?
– Luke 14:28
Voice of the day
You can still fight, but you have to have reserves enough to have the power to be on a different level and try to raise humanity to a different standard. I realised being blind, I see a lot of stuff that other people do not. And my thing is to make sure that, in some way, I can radiate the glory of the Lord and the glory of the universe to everybody I meet.
– Dennis Billups
Prayer of the day
Builder of All Things, through our unique qualities, allow us to recognize room for restoration that ultimately forms ourselves and each other.
Verse of the day
O God, do not keep silent; do not hold your peace or be still, O God!
– Psalm 83:1
Voice of the day
We can learn to work and speak when we are afraid in the same way we have learned to work and speak when we are tired. For we have been socialized to respect fear more than our own needs for language and definition, and while we wait in silence for that final luxury of fearlessness, the weight of that silence will choke us.
– Audre Lorde
Prayer of the day
Breath of Life, let us be wary of our silence when it serves not as a vessel to hear you through, but an excuse to avoid addressing what is harmful.
To identify the movements of the Spirit in our lives, I have found it helpful to use four words: “taken,” “blessed,” “broken,” and “given.” These words summarize my life as a priest because each day, when I come together around the table with members of my community, I take bread, bless it, break it, and give it. These words also summarize my life as a Christian because, as a Christian, I am called to become bread for the world: bread that is taken, blessed, broken, and given. Most importantly, however, they summarize my life as a human being because in every moment of my life somewhere, somehow the taking, the blessing, the breaking, and the giving are happening.You, O Lord, have also known fear. You have been deeply troubled; your sweat and tears were signs of your fear. Make my fear, O Lord, part of yours, so that it will lead me not to darkness but to the light, and will give me a new understanding of the hope of your cross. Amen. — Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World
Reflection Question: Consider where you experience each of these four words in your life: being taken, being blessed, being broken, and being given.
Verse of the day
He shall judge between the nations and shall arbitrate for many peoples; they shall beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks; nation shall not lift up sword against nation; neither shall they learn war any more.
– Isaiah 2:4
Voice of the day
This isn’t like you. We aren’t killers … There’s no need to dig their graves — they’ve done it themselves. It’s your ideals you’re burying.
– Salar in It Was Just An Accident (2025)
Prayer of the day
God of reinvention, help us forsake petty grudges or rise above deeper wounds when we are tempted to betray our better nature.
Words often leave us with a sense of inner defeat. They can even create a sense of numbness and a feeling of being bogged down in swampy ground. Often they leave us in a slight depression, or in a fog that clouds the window of our mind. In short, words can give us the feeling of having stopped too long at one of the little villages that we pass on our journey, of having been motivated more by curiosity than by service. Words often make us forget that we are pilgrims called to invite others to join us on the journey. Peregrinatio est tacere. “To be silent keeps us pilgrims.” — The Way of the Heart
Verse of the day
Just as water reflects the face, so one human heart reflects another.
– Proverbs 27:19
Voice of the day
We like parted drops of rain / Swelling till they meet and run, / Shall be all absorbed again, / Melting, flowing into one.
– Christopher Pearse Cranch, “Enosis.”
Prayer of the day
Spirit of God, may our care for each other resound in a way that encourages unity to flow.
Be with Jesus. Be quiet. Listen to the one who invites you to his home. Gradually, we will notice that we are in his house not only for that half hour, but also throughout the day. We will discover that we are in the house of the Lord wherever we are and whatever we do. By dwelling with the Lord in prayer, we can live in a hostile, violent, competitive world and be at home. — A Spirituality of Homecoming
Detachment is often understood as letting loose of what is attractive. But it sometimes also requires letting go of what is repulsive. You can indeed become attached to dark forces such as resentment and hatred. As long as you seek retaliation, you cling to your own past. Sometimes it seems as though you might lose yourself along with your revenge and hate – so you stand there with balled-up fists, closed to the other who wants to heal. — With Open Hands