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A Deep Well of Compassion – Christine Valters Paintner

Both the book and the retreat opportunities are excellent. Christine’s deep work with grief has been both a profound inspiration and healing experience for me. 💚☘️

“Anyone who has gone through their own journey of deep and conscious grief knows the way it carves out a deep well of compassion in you for others. When you know the sorrows of your life so profoundly it can’t help but connect you to others in a kinship of mourning.”
 

—Christine Valters Paintner, PhD, The Love of Thousands: How Angels, Saints, and Ancestors Walk with Us Toward Holiness
 

When have you experienced a deep well of compassion either in yourself or others?
 

A self-study retreat with additional resources is available here. Use code LOTH20 to take 20% off through November 30th.

Pace e Bene – 13 November 2025

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“Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius—and a lot of courage—to move in the opposite direction.”—Albert Einstein

Refusal of Despair – James Baldwin

“Baldwin calls the willingness to lose everything a refusal of despair. He is describing divine freedom. He is describing the freedom that is called witness.”
 

—Jamie McGhee & Adam Hollowell, You Mean It Or You Don’t: James Baldwin’s Radical Challenge Our Lift Every Voice Book Club selection for November & December
 

What invitation do you receive from this call to divine freedom?
 

View or listen to our conversation with the one of the authors, Jamie McGhee, here.

Sojourners Verse and Voice – 11 November 2025

Verse of the day

Do not deceive yourselves. If you think that you are wise in this age, you should become fools so that you may become wise.
– 1 Corinthians 3:18

Voice of the day

Above all, don’t lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others.
– Fyodor Dostoevsky, “The Brothers Karamazov” (1880)

Prayer of the day

Lover of truth, keep us aware of our own shortcomings, lest we cast premature stones upon others. fear.

Pace e Bene – 10 November 2025

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“It is better to teach or live equality and love . . . than to have hatred and prejudice.”—Rosa Parks

Sojourners Verse and Voice – 10 November 2025

Verse of the day

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. 
– Psalm 46:1

Voice of the day

Lord take my soul, but the struggle continues.
– Ken Saro-Wiwa

Prayer of the day

God, let us affirm your constant presence in our lives and take courage, standing with the oppressed in defiance of fear.

Thresholds – Christine Valters Paintner

The entrance to Minnekirken Norwegian Lutheran Memorial Church in Chicago. We walked past it on the way to my son’s wedding a few weeks ago. This threshold called out to me.

Thresholds are potent doorways between the old and the new. When we step onto a threshold in our lives we release an old identity or old patterns and we await the new birthing. It can be uncomfortable at times to rest in this space of waiting, of not knowing what things will look like. But an essential aspect of retreat time is that we cultivate our capacity to breathe deeply and stay present to what is unfolding within us. — Christine Valters Paintner

Commitment – James Baldwin: A Brief Reflection

It’s been a long time since I have written any sort of a reflection on my blog. For years my blog was a part of my sermon preparation process. When I retired from active ministry in 2023 my blogging decreased significantly. However, I was still writing occasionally as Denise and I kept preaching in a church that was without a pastor. This past May I knew in my heart that something had to change. By choice, I have not been preaching at all for the past five plus months. Denise has also greatly reduced her own preaching activity.

After 38 years of full time ministry, I was burned out and needed some time to simply be still and recover both physically and spiritually. We have done some traveling and have also been doing some ancestry research at home and in Canada where my Mom’s ancestors had lived.

This time has been restorative even in the midst of government and national instability. This preamble leads to my sharing from some of the reading that I have been doing lately.

I’ve just begun reading Jamie McGhee’s book on James Baldwin, You Mean It or You Don’t which is the Abbey of the Arts Book Club’s latest book club recommendation (click on the link for more information about the Abbey and its offerings). I have a feeling that Baldwin is going to both feed and challenge me, especially during such tumultuous times in this nation’s history—a massive understatement to say the least!

Baldwin delivered a speech on the campus of UMass Amherst on February 28, 1984. At one point during his remarks, he said, “In any case, it’s not enough to be a liberal…. That is something people have a great deal of difficulty with. But it is not enough to be a liberal, to have the right attitudes, and even to give money to the right causes. You have to know more than that. You have to be prepared to risk more than that.”

A few moments later, a student asks for clarification. “You said that the liberal façade and being a liberal is not enough. Well, what is? What is necessary?”

Baldwin responded, “Commitment. That is what is necessary. You mean it or you don’t.” (Introduction, p. 10)

Dear reader, as we continue to walk this journey of faith and life, my prayer is that we can support and encourage each other in being committed to the greater good for all of God’s people and creation.

The Vocation of Peace-Making – Henri Nouwen

What we are called to is a life of peacemaking in which all that we do, say, think, or dream is part of our concern to bring peace to this world. Just as Jesus’ command to love one another cannot be seen as a part-time obligation, but requires our total dedication, so too Jesus’ call to peacemaking is unconditional, unlimited, and uncompromising. None of us is excused! It isn’t limited to specialists who are competent in military matters, or to radicals who have dedicated themselves to leafletting, demonstrating, and civil disobedience. No specialist or radical can diminish the undeniable vocation of each Christian to be a peacemaker. Peacemaking is a full-time vocation that includes each member of God’s people.

Pace e Bene – 7 November 2025

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“Remember that when you leave this earth you can take nothing of what you have received, but only what you have given: a heart full, enriched by honest service, love, sacrifice, and courage.”—St. Francis of Assisi