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Living with Integrity – Christine Valters Paintner

“What we choose to validate by how we respond to life witnesses to a particular way of being. That can support and reinforce others making similar choices. This is why community is so important for real spiritual growth and transformation.”

—Christine Valters Paintner, PhD, The Love of Thousands: How Angels, Saints, and Ancestors Walk with Us Toward Holiness
 

What do you find most challenging in striving to live with integrity in all kinds of situations?
 

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Seeing God – Henri Nouwen

The Spirit of God in us recognizes God in the world. The eyes and ears by which we see God in others are in fact spiritual sensitivities that allow us to receive our neighbors as messengers of God. Thus, to go to the poor is to go to the Lord.

Pace e Bene – 3 November 2025

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“Compassion is not sentiment but is making justice and doing works of mercy. Compassion is not a moral commandment but a flow and overflow of the fullest human and divine energies.”—Matthew Fox

Sojourners Verse and Voice – 3 November 2025

Verse of the day

If a brother or sister is naked and lacks daily food and one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and eat your fill,” and yet you do not supply their bodily needs, what is the good of that?
– James 2:15-16

Voice of the day

When people were hungry, Jesus didn’t say, “Now is that political or social?” He said, “I feed you.” Because the good news to a hungry person is bread.
– Desmond Tutu

Prayer of the day

God, in the face of forcibly withheld needs, nurture any outrage we may have into determination to mutually aid one another as witnesses of good news.

Pace e Bene – 2 November 2025

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“Be an active participant in making the world less terrible.”—Blair Imani

Pace e Bene – 1 November 2025

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“We believe . . . That nonviolent and reasonable measures are stronger than weapons.”—Thomas Merton, Peace in the Post-Christian Era

Pace e Bene – 31 October 2025

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“If we’re to give our endangered planet the time and pace to heal, we must begin to see nature not just as a backdrop against which the human drama is enacted, but as an integral part of our lives, as something we must respond to, respect, and actively care about.”—Lorraine Anderson, Sisters of the Earth, second edition

Sojourners Verse and Voice – 31 October 2025

Verse of the day

For nothing is hidden that will not be disclosed, nor is anything secret that will not become known and come to light. 
– Luke 8:17

Voice of the day

Now that we have come out of hiding, / Why would we live again in the tombs we’d made out of our souls?
– Khaled Mattawa, “Now That We Have Tasted Hope”

Prayer of the day

Living God, help us look past the flawed narratives we have historically hidden behind and seek genuine restoration instead.

Sojourners Verse and Voice – 30 October 2025

Verse of the day

Bear one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
– Galatians 6:2

Voice of the day

Just remember that what you put on your pedestal will be your main influence in your life. I am hoping you place love for your family, friends, and humanity; service to your community; concern for human rights, justice, and human dignity on your pedestal.
– Yuri Kochiyama

Prayer of the day

Eternal Advocate, through your unwavering heart, let us expand our consideration of what we can love, and place this love at the forefront of our efforts to change the world.

Open Hearts – Henri Nouwen

When I relate to my past with remorse, shame, or guilt, the danger is that I will harden my heart and be unable to discern the divine presence within and without. When my heart is hardened, it is closed, unavailable, and cold. A hardened heart is a heart in which remorse has turned into morbid introspection, shame into low self-esteem, and guilt into defensiveness. When I keep thinking about myself and my motivations, constantly comparing myself with others and trying to defend my behavior, I am becoming more and more self-centered, and the divine love diminishes in me…. Awakening to the presence of Christ can heal the wounds of my memory. Opening our hearts to the divine presence in the present moment, thus transforming our emotions and healing our memories, is a great challenge of the spiritual life. The memory of the image of God in the soul can turn my stone heart into a heart of flesh, making it flexible, receptive, open, and free.